What are some suggestions for my
card message?
A card message of "With Deepest Sympathy or "Our Thoughts and Prayers
are
With you" are the most common expressions of sympathy and condolences to
a family that has lost a loved one.
If you are family member or a close friend or associate of the deceased,
a card message of "In Loving Memory" would be appropriate.
Traditionally, the casket spray and flowers from the immediate family do
not include a card but rather a banner message.
What is a banner message and what can be placed on the banner?
A banner message is a long ribbon included in the floral arrangement
that
contains a message from the recipient. Traditionally, the banner message
should
express the relationship of the deceased to the sender of the flowers.
For example,
a floral arrangement sent to the funeral of an aunt could read "Beloved
Aunt".
What is an appropriate arrangement to send to a funeral?
The two important factors when choosing funeral flowers are: (1) the
length of time the flowers will be at the funeral home or church, and
(2) whether the flowers will be left at the church or gravesite or taken
home by family members. If you wish your flower arrangement to be
present at the funeral home or church for visitations a day or two
before the service, you should send an arrangement of long lasting
flowers, such as carnations and mums. Arrangements containing roses or
lilies should be delivered the day of the service.
- Standing Easel Sprays
These are the most visible floral arrangements at a funeral. They add to
the beauty and solemness of the funeral service. But because they have a
limited water reservoir, they need to be delivered the day of the
service. Flowers in a spray may not last as long as flowers in a basket
or vase arrangement. Easel sprays are also more difficult for family
members to take home after the service.
- Traditional Funeral Baskets
These are large fan shaped arrangements that include tall flowers like
gladiolas or snapdragons. These arrangements can make a beautiful
addition to a funeral service and because of the water reservoir, they
can be sent to the funeral home or church a day before the service for
visitations. These can be difficult for family members to take home
because of the size of the arrangement.
- Smaller Basket Arrangements
Some people prefer to send smaller or shorter basket arrangements
without tall flowers like gladiolas so that family members can easily
take them home after the service.
- Vase Arrangement
These arrangements tend not to have the visual impact of easel or basket
arrangements but are long lasting and easily taken home by family
members.
- Plants and Dish gardens
Many people send plants to funerals so that family members can have a
long- lasting remembrance to take with them after the funeral service. |
Funeral Home |
Address |
City |
Advantage Funeral Services |
4408 W. Central Ave |
Wichita, KS 67212 |
Affinity Mortuary |
2310 E. Lincoln |
Wichita, KS 67218 |
All Faiths Funeral Services |
3717 W. Central Ave |
Wichita, KS 67212 |
Baker Funeral Home |
100 S. Cedar Ave |
Valley Center, KS 67147 |
Broadway Mortuary |
120 E. Broadway St. |
Wichita, KS 67211 |
Cochran Mortuary |
1411 N. Broadway St. |
Wichita, KS 67214 |
Culbertson-Smith Mortuary |
115 S. Seneca |
Wichita, KS 67213 |
DeVorss-Flanagan Hunt |
201 S. Hydraulic |
Wichita, KS 67211 |
Downing & Lahey East |
6555 E. Central Ave |
Wichita, KS 67206 |
Downing & Lahey West |
10515 W. Maple St. |
Wichita, KS 67209 |
Dunsford Funeral Home |
201 E. 5 th Ave |
Augusta, KS 67010 |
Headley Funeral Chapel |
813 State St. |
Augusta, KS 67010 |
Hillside Funeral Chapel |
935 N. Hillside St. |
Wichita, KS 67203 |
Hillside Funeral Home West |
2929 W. 13 th St. North |
Wichita, KS 67206 |
Hillside-Augusta Funeral Home |
117 W. 6 th Ave |
Augusta, KS 67010 |
Jackson Mortuary |
1125 E. 13 th St. North |
Wichita, KS 67203 |
Lakeview Funeral Home |
12100 E. 13 th St. North |
Wichita, KS 67206 |
Old Mission Mortuary |
3424 E. 21 st St. North |
Wichita, KS 67208 |
Resthaven Mortuary |
11800 W. Highway 54 |
Wichita, KS 67209 |
Senter-Smith Mortuary |
501 SE Louis Dr. |
Mulvane, KS 67110 |
Smith Mortuary-Derby |
1415 N. Rock Road |
Derby, KS 67037 |
Smith Mortuary-Haysville |
7031 S. Broadway |
Haysville, 67060 |
Vann Funeral Home |
1914 E. 11 th St. |
Wichita, KS 67214 |
Watson Funeral Home |
3201 S. Webb Rd. |
Wichita, KS 67210 |
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